Christopher Aust, Master Trainer
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I am going to start this week by pointing out my extreme computer ignorance. Many of you may not have received your newsletter for the last several weeks. This happened when I switched servers a while back but didn't adjust my mail program numbers. So, if you haven't been receiving your weekly issue for a few weeks, I apologize. You can go to www.master-dog-training.com and go to the article index to catch up. I am such a dork!
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Dog Chewing the Sofa? Puppy Eating Your Shoes? Or WORSE?
My wife and I have had two dogs for the last five years. One is basically hers and one mine, but we all love each other just the same. They are very obedient and friendly. They haven't ever shown aggression, but will avoid boisterous children who are too “grabby.”
In February 2005, we will be expecting our first child. We don't want to get rid of our dogs but you hear such horror stories about dogs hurting babies over jealousy. I really don't think the dogs could hurt a soul but worry about the child too. Is there anything we can do to prepare the dogs for the baby coming? Just curious.
if you have the sweetest, best-behaved dog in the world, you should still take the time to prepare your dog for the arrival of a new child. It is particularly important if there are no other young children in the home. Dogs can be a lot like the “baby” child in a family. The new arrival often takes over the spotlight from the “baby” leaving them to feel anger or resentment. Some dogs will adapt just fine without any preparation but it never hurts to be prepared.
We have to look at what usually happens when a baby is introduced to a home with a dog already in place. Nine times out of ten, the dog has been in no way prepared for the new arrival. The dog has noticed several new things in the house they aren't allowed to go near. This could have the dogs a little confused if they have had free reign over household items previously.
There is probably a lot more traffic in the house than usual. There are usually friends and family checking in, more rush around by the expectant mom and dad and just the general chaos that inevitably results when a little peace is what's most needed. Unusual routine schedules can result in stress for your dog.
Now let's look at the household stress levels in the weeks before the child arrives. Having a baby is stressful on momma. She may have been experiencing severe emotional swings, numerous muscle pains, and a longer list of other things going on I am unable to imagine. While I believe dogs instinctively know what is going on in their female owner, I don't believe they have the forethought to understand what that means to them.
Now, I completely understand the woman goes through way more than the man when it comes to childbirth. This doesn't mean the male isn't stressed as well. His behavior has probably not gone unnoticed by the dog either.
Before the baby has ever made it into the house, the dog is stressed because it can't go near new stuff in the house, and mom and dad are stressed. Additionally, their schedule is disrupted and they aren't getting as much attention. Keep in mind, I am generally referring to what happens the last four to six weeks before the baby comes. In my experience, these were the most outwardly crazy times.
Okay now… Lets think about what it was like the first week after your child was born. How many of you felt energetic and ready to take on the world? I'm betting very few. Not only is life as a new parent tiring, but you also tend to have all the family around “helping.”
The baby arrives, as do several other relatives. The dog knows there is a new pack member and can sense mom isn't feeling good either. Every time the dog goes to see momma or the new arrival, they are hurriedly rushed off to another room or kicked out of the house to the back yard - often by people the dog does not recognize as a pack member.
The rooms the dog used to be allowed in are suddenly off limits due to the new arrival. Beyond that, there is this new sound in the house (crying baby) which makes the dogs' ears scream!
Now the average dog is going to be completely perplexed by all of this both pre and post birth. As a result, they will often develop jealousy over the new child, or begin to exhibit destructive behavior. Either way, this is unacceptable.
While these behaviors are completely unacceptable, they are also completely avoidable in the majority of cases. The key is to take steps to prepare our dogs before the baby arrives. In fact, you should begin to prepare your dog as soon as you find out a baby is on the way.
Why should we start so early? It's quite simple. We love both our children and dogs and don't want to see harm come to them in any way. We don't want to see the child hurt by the dog and we don't want to put the dog into a shelter where they could be put to sleep if not adopted.
The first thing we have to do is set up the new boundaries in the house. For instance, if you are currently using what will be the baby's room as an office, and the dog is allowed inside, make it off limits immediately. Additionally, if the baby is going to be staying in your room for the first few weeks/months after they are born, then your bedroom needs to be made off limits as well.
This allows you to make the change in such a way the dog doesn't view the change as the result of the child. This accomplishes two things. First, as I mentioned, the dog won't view the change as a bi-product of the child. It will also establish the child as having an Alpha position over the dog.
Next, we have to look at all the new items in the house. There are swings, highchairs, blankets, jungle gyms, carriers, rockers and a host of other items. The dog needs to be taught what is theirs and what belongs to the child. So, how do we do this?
It's really quite easy. However, we have to make sure our dogs understand a new command…baby. Now this will take a little time for the dog to understand but it does need to start early. Momma should touch her stomach and say, “baby.” It should be done in the same way you would give praise. Allow the dog to smell mommas belly. Believe me, the dog will understand.
Next we have to acknowledge all the new stuff in the house. It should all be made off limits to the dog, but also needs to be operated regularly if the item makes noise. This allows the dog to become accustomed to the item and its noise and also keeps them from associating the item with the child and will reinforce the kid's position in the pack.
It is also a good idea to prepare the dog for the sound of a crying baby. I have had numerous new parents tell me their dog becomes nervous and or agitated when their baby cries. When we think about it, we shouldn't be surprised. We have all heard the piercing cry of a hungry baby that has hurt our ears. What do you think that cry sounds like to a dog whose ears are several times more sensitive.
It is relatively easy to acclimate your dog to the roar of a baby and it can be done when you aren't even home. There are actually sound tracks you can buy of a crying baby believe it or not. You could even record a friend or family member's child as well. All you have to do is put the tape on when you leave for the store or go to work. Start by playing it very softly and progress to the point where the sound is at a normal pitch.
By doing this, you desensitize the dog to the sound. This allows the dog to experience less anxiety when the baby comes home the first day. (This is also a good way to get a dog used to thunderstorms and other noises that cause anxiety or fear.)
Once momma goes to the hospital and has the baby, dad should bring home a blanket the baby has been wrapped in and introduce the baby's “odor” to the dog. They should hold the blanket in front of the dog's nose and say “baby” or something similar. Do not allow the dog to lick or chew the blanket. This allows the dog to basically be introduced to the child before it ever comes home.
When the child does come home, it is best to keep things nice and mellow and wait a couple of days before visitors start to flood the house. This keeps the dog's anxiety down and probably Momma's also. Dad needs to do all he can to keep the dog's normal routine intact, as a consistent schedule will help the dog adjust to the new happenings in the home.
I have also found it helpful for one of the parents to give the dogs some attention when the other parent is spending time with the baby. This will help to keep any resentment from forming in the dog. Keep in mind, that quiet special time you are spending with the baby could very well be similar to the time you spent with the dog before the child's arrival. The dog is going to need that special time in order to feel they aren't being left out or neglected.
Like all things dog, a little pre-planning can go a long way. Now, for some dogs, none of this may be necessary. However, I would rather take a little time in advance rather than have to deal with a tragedy later.
Please, people, never leave a small child alone with your dog. Not even for a minute. I don't care how well behaved the dog is. It's simply not worth the risk.
~ Emily Dickenson ~
Krista is a graduate of Georgia State University where she received a BFA in graphic design, which bled into her passion…all things vintage.
She would often go without lunch in order to buy books featuring vintage design collections. She loved it all. Opulent cigar label lithographs of the early 1900's, sleek and elegant Art Deco posters and packaging, images on vintage matchbook covers.
When she first moved to New Mexico in 1995, she faced an apartment of bare walls. She decided to decorate in her favorite style and since she couldn't afford the real thing, she turned to her book collections.
"I poured through my books and found the images I loved best, then painted them large, on masonite or old wood and antiqued them," Krista explains.
A couple of years later Jason Suttle, a friend knowing she was an artist (and a starving one at that), asked if she would do a painting of his Jack Russell named Fergus. Krista loved the idea and when Jason told her to just do whatever she wanted, she loved it even more.
"I figured why not do it as a beer label, Flying Fergus Pale Ale - Good Dog Good Beer, with his little dog leaping through the center," says Krista.
Jason loved the end result and so did everyone else, so she started taking commissions in the spring of 1998. "Jason was such a doll, he lent the painting back to me every weekend to take up to the flea market (just north of Santa Fe) so I would have something to show," she explains.
Krista is also active with animal rescue causes. She donated a number of her prints to Paws for Change and the Chongqing Dog Project. Without her unsolicited help, the first few dogs rescued from China may never have made it to the States.
Her artwork can now be found in stores and galleries from New York City to San Francisco. However, you don't have to search the galleries trying to find her work. All you have to do is go to her web site, www.retropets.com to see her entire collection and order your favorite prints.
Nowadays, instead of taking commissions, Krista concentrates her time on making new prints. Dogs are center stage right now but she plans to add cats, horses, pigs and even birds to the Retro Pets gang. As Krista puts it, "I'm drawing as fast as I can!"
Take my advice here folks. If you are looking for some
incredible and unique artwork for your home or as a gift for
family and friends, stop by and see Krista first. Believe me,
you won't be disappointed.
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